 Transitions
The end of the academic year brings a number of transitions. Whether
finishing your first year of medical school, approaching boards and clerkships,
choosing a career field, or starting residency, transitions are a hallmark
of this time. The good news is that you are physically designed for transition.
Your brain is wired for problem solving. Your mind and body thrive with
the activity of change.
To help manage the stress that can come with a transition, it is useful
to distinguish between fear and anxiety. Fear occurs when the cause of
discomfort is known and well-founded, anxiety when the cause is vague
and difficult to define. Thinking about the uncertain future, you may
experience anticipatory anxiety.
Some say that the best strategy for coping with situations beyond ones
control is to calm down and accept them. Easier said then done!
If you are feeling anxious, recall how youve calmed yourself in
the past and try new ways as well. Possible calming strategies:
Do deep breathing, starting with a slow exhale, pause and slow
inhale
Exercise regularly in ways you enjoy
Practice meditation, twice a day for at least ten minutes each
time
Engage in stimulating conversa- tions with people whom you like
and trust
Express yourself through art
Dont forget that some healthy denial may be useful. Constant discussion
and repetitive analysis/ reporting of your anxiety probably does not help.
Another way to deal with lifes ambiguity and/or your ambivalence
is to focus on what you are able to influence. For instance, you can improve
close personal and professional relationships, and you can strengthen
yourself. There are many ways to develop your strength. (Some overlap
with aforementioned calming methods.) For example, enhance your mental
health by:
Staying/becoming more socially involved
Continuing to learn
Expressing yourself through art
Maintaining physical and/or spiritual health
Understanding the natural ambiguity of life
In addition to the above suggestions, how else can you strengthen and
care for yourself? Remind yourself of who you are and what you want in
life, personally and professionally. Remember why you started on this
educational path, and revisit the ideals you had when you decided you
wanted to become a physician. Although you cannot easily and immediately
actualize your dreams, you can move toward them. Each small step confirms
that you have choices, even in this challenging educational environment
where you do not have a lot of free time. When you make progress in concert
with classmates and teachers, you not only draw on their resources and
encouragement, but also contribute to their progress.
Finally, another way to care for yourself during transition times is to
be clear about what you need. It may be attention, physical care, respite,
fun or tangible goods. Do not postpone tending to yourself. This may be
difficult for people studying to be caregivers for others (especially
if you do not have enough time in the day to eat, let alone practice other
types of self-care). By reinforcing your mental and physical health first,
you will be all the more capable of helping others
and helping others
is probably one of the main reasons you chose to go to medical school.
Please contact us in the Well-being office at (415) 476-0468 if you want
to talk about your experience making and anticipating transitions or if
you want to talk about other aspects of your well-being.
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